What Are Sitting Services for the Elderly and How Can They Help?

Chris Williams
December 12, 2025

Many families look for sitter services for the elderly when they want their loved one to remain in their home but cannot offer constant supervision. Recent data shows that more than 5 million unpaid carers in the UK support older relatives, and many struggle to balance caring responsibilities with work, childcare, and their own health and hobbies. Sitting support offers a practical way to keep an older person safe, comfortable, and socially connected without moving them from familiar surroundings or overtaxing family carers.

Age UK reports that around 2 million older people in England are living with unmet social care needs. Many older adults want to remain independent, but mobility changes, memory loss, or loneliness can make daily life harder. A sitter or companion offers regular reassurance, social interaction, and help with tasks to enable someone to remain at home safely.

What Are Sitting Services for the Elderly?

A sitting service for the elderly provides companionship at home and help with daily tasks. These services are often used by family members who need a break from caring responsibilities or cannot be present all the time. They can also support people who feel lonely or anxious when left alone for long periods.

You might hear different terms for these services, including sit-in services for the elderly, elderly sitting services, elderly sitter service, or elderly sitting service. All refer to a trained person spending time with an older adult in their own home, providing reassurance, conversation, and practical help.

This type of support can last a few hours or an entire day, or cover specific moments when your loved one needs someone nearby. It’s an alternative to residential care that allows an older person to remain independent, with the knowledge that support is there when needed.

What Does an Elderly Sitter Do?

An elderly sitter supports an older person to stay safe, relaxed, and connected. Their duties depend on the individual’s needs and what has been agreed in their care plan. Sitters may be trained carers, personal assistants, or trained volunteers, depending on the provider.

 Common activities provided by a sitting service for the elderly include:

Companionship and social interaction

Sitters often offer warm, friendly company. They may chat with the individual, read with them, support their hobbies, or encourage gentle activity. Their emotional support and company are especially helpful for older adults who feel isolated or need more social contact.

Meal preparation

A sitter can assist with simple meal preparation, making snacks, drinks, or light meals that help the individual stay well-nourished and hydrated.

Personal care

Some sitters are trained to provide personal care. They may assist the individual with washing, dressing, or using the toilet. All support is given respectfully and with the person’s wishes in mind.

Medication assistance

Sitters can also assist older people with their medication, including collecting prescriptions, helping to organise tablets, and providing reminders to take pills.

Practical assistance

Sitters support the individual with daily tasks, such as:

  • Light household chores
  • Laundry
  • Tidying
  • Safe movement around the home

Spending time outside the home

Many sitters support gentle outings and encourage older people to connect with their community. Activities may include:

  • Walks in local parks
  • Visiting friends
  • Trips to the library
  • Attending day activities or groups

Help after hospital discharge

A sitter can offer practical support to help someone recover safely and reduce the risk of another hospital admission. .

Night sitting service

Some families use a night sitting service so their loved one has company and reassurance at night. Overnight support  may help individuals with memory loss, confusion, or anxiety feel safe at home.

Sitting support is flexible, and Tiggo Care tailors this help to match the needs of your loved one.  

When Might a Sitter Be Needed?

You may consider arranging elderly sitting services when you notice changes in a loved one’s health, mood, or safety. Many families choose support during specific times when their loved one might struggle alone.

Here are common signs it might be time to consider a sitter:

1. A loved one feels lonely or isolated

Older adults living alone may struggle with long periods without company. A sitter offers gentle conversation, shared activities, and a human connection.

2. Memory loss or confusion

People in the early stages of dementia can benefit from consistent support to manage symptoms, stay safe in their home, and feel less anxious.

3. After a hospital stay

A sitter can support someone during recovery by helping with meals, mobility, and safety around the home.

4. A primary carer needs a break

Many adult children support their parents while also balancing work or caring for their own families. A sitter can provide respite care so the primary carer can rest, work, or run errands.

5. Daily tasks become difficult

Families may choose a sitting service when they find their loved one is struggling with daily tasks, including: 

  • Preparing meals
  • Remembering medication
  • Managing household chores
  • Moving safely around the home

6. A person needs extra company or reassurance

Some older adults feel nervous when alone. A sitter offers companionship and makes sure they feel safe at home.

7. Regular carers need support

Even the most experienced regular carers benefit from time away. Sitting services give them a break while ensuring the older person continues receiving consistent help.

A sitting service is not a replacement for medical care. Instead, it is a practical way to support people living at home who may need social interaction, reassurance, and a helping hand.

What Is Included in Elderly Sitting Services?

Different providers offer different levels of support, but most sitting services for the elderly include a mix of companionship, practical help, and personal assistance. The goal is to help an older person remain safe, comfortable, and socially connected in their own home.

Support offered by an elder sitter service may include:

1. Companionship and conversation

This is often the heart of sitting support. Sitters offer:

  • Warm interaction
  • Friendly company
  • Shared activities
  • Support with hobbies

2. Personal care

Trained sitters can help with:

  • Washing
  • Dressing
  • Using the bathroom
  • Safe movement in the home

3. Help with meals

Sitters prepare simple meals and drinks to support good nutrition.

4. Light household tasks

These may include:

  • Tidying
  • Laundry
  • Cleaning small areas
  • Organising daily routines

5. Medication assistance

Sitters can help the person stay on track with medication by offering reminders or collecting prescriptions.

6. Support with mobility

Sitters help with safe movement around the home, reducing the risk of falls.

7. Running errands

Tasks might include:

  • Shopping
  • Posting letters
  • Collecting medication

8. Supporting people living with mental health conditions

Sitters can help someone stay calm, grounded, and reassured.

9. Help at night

For families who need it, a sitter can stay overnight to help an older adult feel safe and assist with their nighttime routines 10. Company during recovery

After an illness or injury, a sitter can help someone return to routines and habits that help them feel like themselves again.

Sitting services offer flexibility. Some people need short visits during the week, while others may benefit from longer or more regular support. Tiggo Care can design a fully managed care plan that reflects your loved one’s wishes and needs.

What Are the Benefits of Sitting Services?

Sitting services for the elderly offer both the older adult and their family a wide range of benefits.  A sitting service can support independence, reduce stress, and improve the well-being of everyone involved. 

Here are some key benefits of sitting services that many families in London appreciate.

1. Peace of mind for family members

When a sitter is spending time with your loved one, you can be reassured that they are safe in their own home. This peace of mind is especially valuable for adult children balancing work, childcare, and a caregiving role. 

2. Emotional support and companionship

Older adults benefit greatly from regular conversation and gentle activity. Companionship reduces loneliness, improves mental health, and encourages social interaction. Many older adults find joy in having a warm drink with a sitter, playing games with them, or sharing memories.

3. Familiar environment and routine

A sitter helps an older person stay in a familiar environment, surrounded by their belongings, memories, and personal comforts. This sense of familiarity helps them remain independent, especially when experiencing memory loss or complex conditions.

4. Reduction of loneliness

Loneliness affects many older people, and a sitter offers friendly, reliable company. Their regular visits make a positive impact, especially with older people who struggle with low mood, isolation, or lack of confidence.

5. Fewer disruptions to daily habits

A sitter can support the person to engage in their favourite hobbies, move safely  in the home, and complete household tasks. This continuity can ease stress and support wellbeing more effectively than residential care.

6. Support after hospital discharge

Regular visits during recovery reduce the risk of another hospital admission. Sitters can help people recovering from illness or surgery with meals, hydration, medication, and general encouragement.

7. Respite for regular carers

Using a sitter gives regular carers a chance to rest. Regular respite prevents burnout, exhaustion, and strain within the family. A break helps you return refreshed, which improves the quality of care you can provide.

8. Support for people living with mental health conditions

Sitters can help people experiencing anxiety, confusion, or depression. Simple companionship, structure, and reassurance often make a person feel calmer and more grounded.

9. Adaptable to different needs

Some families choose short visits a few times a week. Others choose longer sessions, occasional sitting, a night sitting service, or sitting support during the early stages of recovery after an operation. This flexibility means you can build a plan that fits your loved one’s situation.

10. Cost-effective support

Sitting services help someone stay in their home instead of transitioning to expensive residential care. A sitter offers the right level of support so you’re not paying for unnecessary hours.

11. Consistent support from trained carers

Professional sitting services provide trained carers who undergo DBS background checks, training, and ongoing monitoring by the Care Quality Commission. These checks ensure sitters deliver safe, reliable support tailored to each individual’s needs.

12. Helps older people accept more support

Some older adults are unsure about accepting help. Sitting services introduce support gently, helping them feel comfortable with the idea of having additional support, such as a live-in carer, in the future.

13. Helps manage symptoms

People living with long-term health conditions, memory decline, or reduced mobility may find that regular sitting support helps them manage symptoms and feel safer at home.

14. Social connection and community engagement

Sitters can encourage safe outings, group activities, or visits to friends, reducing isolation and helping older people to stay connected to  their community.

Conclusion

Choosing the right service for the elderly can feel overwhelming, but sitting support is often the first step in helping an older adult remain safe, confident, and independent at home. It offers reassurance to families, improves daily well-being, and provides gentle, positive company that many older adults enjoy. With the right support, your loved one can continue living in their own home, supported by people who truly understand their needs and know how to provide care safely and compassionately.

At Tiggo Care, you can organise care visits that match your loved one’s preferences, routines, and the level of help they require. Our sitting services are designed to give families peace of mind while offering meaningful companionship, practical help, and personalised care planning.

Whether you need short visits, a short-term arrangement, a regular break, or ongoing support from healthcare professionals, Tiggo Care's home care services ensure your loved one receives the best quality support. Our team can also guide you if your loved one eventually needs a live-in carer or round-the-clock support, ensuring continuity in the place they value most.

Frequently Asked Questions
What services are available for seniors at home?

Support available for seniors at home includes companionship, personal care, help with meals, mobility assistance, and help with daily tasks. Some families also use a night sitting service, domiciliary care, or short-term arrangements for respite. These care services help keep your loved one safe, supported, and comfortable in familiar surroundings.

What is an elderly sitting service?

An elderly sitting service provides company, reassurance, and practical help for elderly people living in their homes. Depending on the provider, a sitter may offer befriending services, meal preparation, medication reminders, and basic assistance. Some families choose private sitters for flexible support that fits their preferences and routines.

How do I know if sitting services are right for my parents?

You might find sitting support helpful if your loved one feels lonely, needs more confidence moving around their home, or could benefit from gentle structure during the day. Sitting services are also valuable for a person needing care who would like to stay in familiar surroundings with the help of their own carer. If your elderly loved one enjoys companionship and conversation and needs support with simple tasks, sitting services are likely a suitable match.

How to find a companion or sitter service for an older person?

You can start by asking your local council about assessments or available schemes. Some families also choose private providers, which deliver care from trained carers and healthcare professionals working as a team. Always check that the service uses trained carers withDBS background checks, and that the support they offer aligns with your loved one’s long-term goals, such as remaining in their home and avoiding residential care.

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